"Discover an easy & stress-free way to communicate with your teen"

"At Last! A Collection of Teen Stories That Inspire, Encourage, Educate and Motivate Our Teens"

Introducing "Be Special, Be Yourself for Teenagers"
Inspirational Teen Stories By Ronit Baras

Who else wants to discover morale-boosting, confidence-building teen stories that uplift the soul and inspire young adults to be responsible and motivated?

Forget about computers or TV and throw out lecturing your teens about respect, health, success, motivation and confidence.

"Be Special, Be Yourself for Teenagers", a collection of inspirational teens stories that does the job for you!

"I Like the Ideas Very Much!"

"The book showed adults and teenagers that we need to appreciate who we are and what we have and feel free to show love to our loved ones…"

– Annique Goldberg, Mother of two and World Traveller, Australia

From:
Ronit Baras, B.Ed
Educator, Life Coach and Author
Mother of three (two teens)
Tuesday, Feb 9, 2010

Dear Parent,

If you are shocked at how troubled teens are nowadays and unhappy with the amount of time they spend in front of the TV or the computer, if you are worried about increasing teen violence and depression, alcohol, accidents, drugs or sexual exposure, if you are concerned your teenager may be suffering from overweight or anorexia, and you want to play an active role in supporting your teen and helping him or her find strength and confidence, then this may be the most important letter you have read all year.

Here's why…

As an educator, I have worked with parents and teens in the last 22 years, promoting emotional intelligence and strong family relationships. I have found that telling stories, as opposed to lecturing, was a great way to inspire, promote self-acceptance and boost confidence in people at any stage of life. I started focusing on teens when I was coaching parents and running parenting workshops all around the world. I discovered there are many troubled teens out there and there are many difficulties in parenting teens.

What I have gathered from parents during numerous workshops was alarming:

Parents think that parenting teens is not easy
Parents think there is an increasing gap between them and their teens
Parents think there is heavy peer pressure on their teens
Parents think they have "troubled teens" that do not want help
Parents think there is too much violence and too many unhealthy messages on TV
Parents think teens will do anything to be accepted by their peers
Parents think teens spend too much time on their computer
Parents fear their teens drink irresponsibly
Parents think teens do not value money
Parents fear their teens are exposed to smoking
Parents think teens are disrespectful
Parents fear their teens are exposed to drugs
Parents think teens do not appreciate what their parents do for them
Parents fear their teens are exposed to sex without understanding the consequences and do not practice safe sex
Parents fear for their teens' health (Bulimia and Anorexia are common concerns)

The good news:

"If you share any of these feelings, you are normal!"

When my daughter became a teenager, I understood those fears fully, but when I talked to the teens, I realised they were really struggling and they shared similar views on their parents, but from the other side:

Teens think of themselves as "troubled teens"
Teens say the gap between them and their parents is increasing because parents do not "get it"
Teens say they have a lot of pressure from their parents
Teens say the computer is their refuge from arguments at home
Teens think parenting teens should be different than parenting kids
Teens say their parents do not appreciate them and that their expectations are too high
Teens say their parents do not love them
Teens think they are lonely in their struggles and they cannot share their troubles with "the grownups" because they cannot trust them
Teens talk about their relationships in terms of "us" and "them"

The good news:

"If your teen expresses the same frustrations,
he or she is normal!"

I have found that both parents and teens were unhappy with their relationship and that parents really did care and wanted to support their teens (why else would you go to a parenting workshop?).

2 years ago, I published the completion of this journey in a book called "Be Special, Be Yourself for Teenagers", a collection of 8 inspirational teen stories. I was happy that the book was valuable for teens and parents alike and the feedbacks were wonderful. On their feedback, readers wrote about the growth they had experienced while reading the book and the values they had taken from it. Teens said they never knew grownups felt and thought like that and parents said the same about their teens.

"I finished the last story and went to hug my son…"

– Ann W., Chicago, IL, USA

The stories in the book inspired teens to push through challenges and find their unique identities, after "meeting" teens that showed them a way to be the best they can be.

But I am getting ahead here. Maybe I should first introduce myself and let you in on how this book came about…

My name is Ronit Baras and I am an educator and a life coach, but most of all, I am a parent, just like you. And, like you, I am very concerned with what my teen daughter and my teen son face in their teen life.

When I was a teen, we did not watch that much TV. We did not sit in front of the computer talking to strangers. The rate of teen pregnancies was not that high, teen obesity and Anorexia were not that common and violence was not an accepted way of life. Yes, there were conflicts, but nowadays, teen life is much more troubled and is far from being pure fun.

Parenting teens, on the other hand, is no great fun either. Unfortunately, teen exposure to the internet has taken some of the control away from parents, destroyed some values and left teen perception of life to depend on their friends, the books they read and what they see on TV and on the computer. The good news is that between all such influences,

"You, the parent, are still the
most influential agent in your teen's life"

One of the most common expressions I have heard from my clients was "I wish I knew this when I was young". How many times have you said this to yourself?

"I Wish I Knew This When I Was Young"

"I wish I had this book when I was a teenager and I also wish I'd had it when my children were younger…"

– Sandra Hogan, Mother of three,
Consultant and Author, Australia

I promise you, your teens will say the same thing unless you give them this knowledge and understanding now, when they are young.

Why wish? Why make them wait to be 30 or 40 years old and go to a life coach (or shrink) to help them find your strength? Why not show your teens their strengths when they are young?

Why not enjoy your time with them when they are young?

Imagine your teen growing up with an attitude of a motivated person, who understands how much his parents love him and has the strength to hang around friends that are good for him and follow his own heart. How many times do you think this person will say "I wish I knew this when I was young?"

When I realized that what my clients had said was a treasure, I started the quest to make sure teens "get it" when they are young. Coaching worked perfectly and I am a great believer in supporting people one by one, but the more successful I was in changing teens' and their families' lives, the more I felt this was just too slow.

For a long time, I asked myself, "How do I get to as many teens and parents as possible?" Then, I did exactly what I tell my clients to do.

"Find a way to combine the things you love,
the things you are good at and things you are passionate about
and you have your path in life"

So I went over all the things I did and realized that I loved writing and I love dmy work as an educator and a life coach and those are things that I was good at and felt passionate about and I got my answer: Write a book for teens!

Many people told me, "Don't waste your time. Teens don't buy books. Go to the teen section in any bookstore – it is the smallest section there. Give it up."

Well, I went into every bookstore in my area and talked to the manager in each one of them and, what do you know, it was right. The teen section was so small it was devastating. The adult section was big, the children section was huge, but not the teen section. It really seemed like investing in teens was not very popular. I thought that giving up was the easiest thing to do, but how can I say, "Never give up!" if I do not practice what I preach?

I realized that the reason the teen book section is small is not because teens do not read (although we could all benefit from reading more) but because they spend many hours on the computer. Looking at the screen so many hours a day, they read a lot! They may not read exactly what you want them to read, but they read a lot. And that was my answer:

"Why not give them quality material to read
on their computer?"

This edition of Be Special, Be Yourself for Teenagers is a collection of 8 inspirational stories for teens, about teens – their families, their relationships, their challenges and their triumphs. The choice for the topics came from teens and parents. Most characters in this book are real, as real as you and me, as real as your son and my daughter. They are normal kids, with real challenges and inspiring solutions – real, yet special, just like your kids and mine.

I wanted to create something special to empower teens to adopt a positive attitude towards life and keep the communication between them and the grown-ups in their lives open. I wanted to instil confidence, respect, self worth, trust and love as seeds for a responsible, happy life.

More that that

I wanted to create something special that will cater for parents' needs and will allow you to understand your teens better and support them in their most troubled, yet exciting stage of their life. I wanted this book to help parents bridge the gap between grown-ups and teens to eliminate "us" and "them" and start working together. I wanted teens to see the love we have for them.

The feedback I have received from readers of the book speaks for itself.

"Deep Wisdom and Sage Advice"

"This collection of stories samples a wide range of significant social and emotional experiences in the lives of a range of young adults, their friends and families. Ronit has managed to convey deep wisdom and sage advice about values and behavior, self esteem and relationships, in a style which refrains from preaching, but rather allows characters, events and storylines to illuminate issues, struggles and resolutions, in a manner which is particularly engaging for young people. It strikes me as an ideal teaching resource for the study of society and personal development…"

– Maria Delaney, Mother of three,
Gender Equality and Body Image Consultant, Australia

"I Really Love the Book"

"We face peer pressure every day, so it's cool to read a book that goes against everything people look for.

Be happy with yourself, you are the only person you will answer to, in the end. If you have enough determination, you can do anything.

Be Special, Be Yourself for Teenagers is on of my top 10 book list. I love it!

There is really hope!"

– Stephanie Cook, 16 Years Old

"Positive, Inspiring Life Message for Young and Old"

"This enjoyable and original book is special on so many levels - from the imaginative story lines, to the way it creatively and sensitively deals with issues of relevance to both teenagers and adults. Be Special, Be Yourself for Teenagers is an absorbing read, which stimulates our thinking about human nature and how we deal with love, acceptance of self, finding personal strength and the understanding and acceptance of the differences which define us as individuals. The interest created by the inter-woven storylines, particularly in Love Me, Love Me Not , are especially enjoyable as we trace the invisible emotional connections the characters have with one another. Be Special, Be Yourself for Teenagers contains positive, inspiring life messages for young and old…"

– Tamara Luski, Mother of three and Music Teacher, Australia

Take a peek inside
"Be Special, Be Yourself for Teenagers"

STORY #1: Bojé's Magic Powder - Discover what teens feel about their body … what they think about their health …why they are so preoccupied with diets …what will happen if you do not put a stop to it … (starting on page 9)

"We all diet, we don't really know why"

STORY #2: Beauty Queen - What teens think about beauty … the truth about beauty contests … how teens survive pressure from home and from their friends … what kinds of friends are good for your kid …what is really important to your teen … (see for yourself from page 28)

"I felt bad at the end, but I would have done the same thing"

STORY #3: Be Special, Be Yourself - Find out what teens think about peer pressure …what motivates teens …what it means for them to be socially accepted … what are the dangers of the "disease to please" … why school is not only about academic achievements … the secret to being true to yourself … (revealed from page 37)

"It's the same for me. It is so hard, so hard to be me, I don't even know what it means…"

STORY #4: Curly Line with Flowers (Parents and Teens' Favorite!) - Uncover the truth about learning difficulties … how learning difficulties translate to social difficulties … who else has difficulties … what never to say to your child … how to turn every difficulty into an advantage … the best way to help your teen … how to be an inspiring role model … (learn on page 47)

"Difficulties are only opportunities in disguise"

"There is lots of help out there and we are not alone"

STORY #5: The Building of Life - How teens see responsibility … how their personal experiences determine their perception … the best and easiest way to experience social justice without the headaches of reality …what politics has to do with justice … the best way to make teens aware of their social surroundings … what they will never learn in school, but everyone expects them to know … (look at page 77)

"It was a good way to look at justice"

"It seemed so easy at first … do you mean voting is that complicated"

STORY #6: The guidance counsellor - Why teens have difficulty trusting adults …why teens are at the mercy of grown ups … how can adults help teens … why do we need to have a support system to help teens at school … why the reputation teens have is not true for all of them … what goes on in the head of an abused teenager … (find out from page 94)

"It was about handling bullying through inner strength"

"Some adults are OK"

STORY #7: Love Me, Love Me Not (Parents and Teens' Favorite!) - How hard it is to be a teen … why what they wear is not a representation of who they are inside … how academic achievements have nothing to do with their hairstyle … what they think of their teachers … why parents are human too … love wanted at all ages … what fears we have … why when facing a difficulty, your teen needs you more … what goes on in their head when they are not careful … a good introduction to adulthood … (page 101)

"Grown ups are just human"

"I loved this story and I asked my mum to read it too"

STORY #8: Biography - What never to keep away from your teen … everything you think your teen can see, but they really can't … secrets you should never hide from your teen … what will happen if you do not tell your teen how much you love him or her … how families get close in the face of adversity and difficulty … (read from page 144)

"We should all do an autobiography. I know I should"

"Keep Trying, No Matter What "

"Be Special, Be Yourself for Teenagers says you might try something and fail, but trying it differently will give you different results. It beautifully shows that not everyone who looks perfect has a perfect life. Keep trying, no matter what.

The greatest message to parents and teenagers is ‘Never give up. There's always a way through'.

I loved it!"

– Jennifer Masterton, 16 Years Old, Australia

159 pages of responsible, inspiring, motivated and well-balanced teens!

And easy parenting!

This is what these stories will give you.

As a parent, I know firsthand how important and challenging parenting teens is. As an educator and a life coach, I know that what teens are exposed to at this special age has a dramatic affect on who they will become and on their relationship with us, their parents.

It is important that we seize the moment.

With our hectic lifestyles, it is essential that we expose them to the right attitude . And what better way to do it than by sharing the inspirational gift of motivational stories in "Be Special, Be Yourself for Teenagers"?

In just a few minutes, you will know you have given your teen the best possible start. Not only are they getting an inspirational gift of love from you, but they are also being exposed to the values that will shape their character and build self-esteem and confidence for the rest of their lives!

What we give our teens NOW will ultimately shape their future.

"There Will Always Be Someone There to Help You"

"Be Special, Be Yourself for Teenagers has taught me that being different can be a good thing and we shouldn't change our beliefs just because they're not what most people think.

People are special not because of how beautiful or popular they are, but because of what kind of person they are inside. The book encouraged me not to be afraid to ask for help. No matter what problem you have, there will always be someone there to help you and someone to listen to you and you should never give up.

I learned that if I try my hardest, I will get what I want and that sometimes the things that I want most can be right under my nose…"

– Penny Johnston, 14 Years Old, Australia

159 pages packed with value

Here's the complete list of inspirational teen stories in "Be Special, Be Yourself for Teenagers" and what teens have said each story was about:

Story	Key issues and messages teens identify

Bojé's Magic Powder (page 9)	Body image Health	Peer pressure
"We really need to be responsible for our health"
Beauty Queen (page 28)	Inner beauty vs external beauty Living with a disabled parent	Friendship Courage Choice
"Beauty is on the inside"
Be Special, Be Yourself (page 37)	Handling pressure Self worth and self acceptance	The courage to be yourself
"You can't please everybody anyway!"
Curly Line with Flowers (page 47)	Being different Living with a learning difficulty Parent support Teachers can be a great help	Success at school Dreams and ambitions in life Motivation Overcoming challenges
"Never give up" "Find your special gift. We all have one"
The Guidance Councillor (page 77)	Trust Authorities Domestic violence Bullying	Inspiring grown ups Inspiring teens Care for one another Inner strength
"There is always help if you look for it"
The Building of Life (page 94)	Justice Politics Fairness	Wealthy vs poor Leadership Management
"Circumstances make people see things differently, but there is no single 'correct' point of view, just people"
Love Me, Love Me Not (page 101)	Friendship Confidence Relationship Success at school Fear	Grief Forgiveness Communication Sex Abuse
"Grownups need love and have problems too"
Biography (page 144)	Gratitude Communication Friendship	Love of parents Parent-teen conflicts
"Our parents love us more than we know"

"I Can't Express How Much I Love It!"

"I'm sitting here on the plane. I'm sure I'm getting some strange looks 'cause the tears are streaming down my face... I just finished your book - I didn't put it down once, not even to eat. After each story, I kept thinking 'No, that one is definitely my favourite' until I realised that they all were just amazing!
I really liked the one about dyslexia. I can't believe you wrote the whole story like that but then each section the spelling improved. It is wonderful!!

I really can't express how much I loved it!

The story about the teacher whose dad wanted her to be a doctor had a huge impact on me, as did the one where the teacher set up the building in the classroom... But the last story, what can I say? I just cried and cried!

Ronit, you are an absolutely wonderful and inspiring person... and a brilliant writer…"

– Tina R., High School Teacher, Australia

"Be Special, Be Yourself for Teenagers"
Belongs in the Home of Every Family with Teenagers

As you can see from what teens have said about each story, "Be Special, Be Yourself for Teenagers" contains messages guaranteed to support your teen, instil confidence and inspire him or her to live a responsible and happy life. "Be Special, Be Yourself for Teenagers" takes your teen's hands and leads them to a safe place, where parents and teens communicate and support each other through challenges towards a loving and happy relationship.

And what is really exciting is you and your teen can start reading this e-book within a minute. You have the choice of receiving this e-book as a convenient PDF file straight to your computer (it works on PCs and Macs too!). So within minutes you can be handing your teen the gift of his life and allowing him to discover for himself the wonderful life lessons this book has to offer.

So forget about how many hours he spends in front of the computer…
Forget about lecturing him about life…
And stop worrying about your teen's future…

Forget about all that.

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You could spend more than that just on lunch or buying your teen a shirt.

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I fully believe your teen will love these stories and probably change his point of view regarding you and the grown ups in his life and feel motivated and inspired to never give up! In fact, I am guaranteeing it. I guarantee that you and your teen will find great value in "Be Special, Be Yourself for Teenagers" and if in the unlikely event you are not absolutely happy with the book, I will refund your money.

But... the e-book is yours to keep, no matter what,
as a "thank you" gift from me to your teen!

It is worth my investment.

So you really can't lose!

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I cannot be any fairer than this. If you do not find value in it, just let me know and you get a full refund … PLUS you get to keep the e-book.

If you believe that teens are influenced by what they read (on the computer) you will agree that just one massage that they adopt is priceless and definitely worth more than the low price of this book.

I really want you as a parent to experience the connection with your children that these stories can create, to feel the true joy that these stories bring to your children's lives. This is why I kept the price way down to allow every parent to take advantage of it and I am offering you this e-book for just AU$19.90. And just think, you have invested so much in your kid since he was born, you know that just AU$19.90 is a great investment. All you need to do is click the order now button and in a minute, you can have your e-book to read straight on your computer or print and read it later. Surely, AU$19.90 is a small amount to invest in your child's future wellbeing? Remember, if you are concerned and want the best for your teen, you have to do something about it. If you do nothing, nothing is will change…

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Special Introductory Offer

Even though this book is based on over 22 years of educational experience, I have decided to sell it for just AU$19.90. This is a bargain in anyone's language, but I have taken it one step further!

If you like to hold a book in your hand and flip through the pages, I offer you the soft-cover book for the low price of AU$29.90. Yes, that's right. A real book, a printed copy you can hold in your hand, for the low price of AU$29.90. When I say a real book, I mean "just like the one you see in this picture". I deliberately kept the price of the printed version of "Be Special, Be Yourself for Teenagers" way down so even those who like the experience of a "real" book can get hold of the book.

Bonus Offer for the Printed Copy
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That is a saving of AU$9.35

But do not wait too long. You must act quickly to get this special offer.

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This is over 32% discount and a total saving of AU$19.35

Warm Regards,

Ronit Baras
"Helping You Achieve Success and Happiness!"

P.S. Please remember your e-book investment is fully guaranteed.

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