Relationship Coaching

Happy coupleSince Noah’s time, people have been in pairs. Everywhere around the world, Millions of people look for the “perfect match” to share their life, yet the divorce rate is rising. Because people change, their relationships must change with them to keep the feeling of closeness and friendship. At Be Happy in LIFE, we know how to build good relationships that bond people for life. Would you like to know too?

The success of marriage comes not in finding the “right” person, but in the ability of both partners to adjust to the real person they inevitably realize they married
John Fischer

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Background

My best friend is the one who brings out the best in me
Henry Ford

Broken marriage

If you have seen the movie Mrs Doubtfire or Kramer vs. Kramer, you have probably had a glimpse of what it means to separate or divorce. The problem is that a movie cannot describe even a small portion of the emotional stress people go through when they think about separating. If you have a friend who is divorced, you know a lot more about the toll they paid for it. Separation is a failure grade we receive on one of the biggest tests in life.

Expectations

The real problem is that the reasons people separate or divorce do not just disappear after. In fact, there is a big chance they will give birth to more problems. If you are not happy with your relationship and think separation will make you happier, think again. Chances are you have attributed the failure of the relationship to your spouse, but if it were only one person’s failure, life would be much easier.

Brooding couple in bedBlaming someone else and trying to change the partner instead of working on yourself sounds like a convenient way to handle stress. Walking away only seems easy. but in soon becomes long term pain.

To save your relationship, the first step is to have realistic, reasonable expectations and demands regarding yourself and your partner. If your expectations are irrational and unrealistic, you are likely to be disappointed and frustrated and unconsciously behave in a way that might lead to separation.

In the Be Happy in LIFE Relationship Coaching program, we help you align your expectations. We believe that any relationship requires alignments of values, needs and desire. Usually, because the couple is experiencing pain in the relationship, they find it hard to negotiate expectation and our very clear process makes it easy for them to do it without giving up who they are and their desires.

Many marriages would be better if the husband and the wife clearly understood that they are on the same side
Zig Ziglar

Short Memory

Arguing coupleAnother reason for separation is the couple’s short memory. For some reason, the same loving couple that vowed to support each other “in sickness and in health” have lost the enthusiasm somewhere between the shopping, cleaning, going to work and raising kids. When couples in our coaching are asked about the most exciting days of their life, they look at each other with an embarrassed smile. They are so busy talking about the problems, they forget the blissful moments.

In the Be Happy in LIFE Relationship Coaching program, we help couples save their relationship, by giving them constant reminders of their promises to each other and teaching them how to keep working on their relationship so that the joyful memory of their relationship will not fade with washing the dishes, cleaning and working hard.

A good marriage is a contest of generosity
Diane Sawyer

Disposable Relationships

Our modern society has indeed become a disposable society. We change jobs often, throw things away after buying new ones and move houses more than in the past, so changing relationships seems to many people like a modern trend. Partners consider separation and divorce as a way of getting out of the routine. Living together with the same person seems boring and the need for excitement and change is missing. Marriage is not a computer game, and you cannot just press “escape”. Unfortunately, marriage has become such an easy procedure, people rush to get married and later on rush to call their lawyers and instruct them to initiate divorce proceedings.
Divorce decree

Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction
Antoine De Saint-Exupery

In the Be Happy in LIFE Relationship Coaching program we make sure you have changes in your life in areas that minimize the stress. We help you make sure you fuel the excitement with romantic dates, surprises and holidays and leave separation as a last resort.

The truth is that divorce has an ugly side to it and it is by far harder to do than to gain courage to save what deserves to be saved.

In every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find, and continue to find, the grounds for marriage
Robert Anderson

Divorce un-builds and undoes what takes years to nurture, and sadly, often the only people who benefit from it are greedy lawyers, who use every trick in the book to strip “the other side” of their assets, until no trace of the person’s investment – physical, monetary or emotional – remains.

Happy couple

Relationships are like milk. It takes hours to milk the cow, but only a second to spill the bucket
Ronit’s mum

Relationships are the key to so many things: finding and keeping your soul mate, finding and keeping your job, getting along with your family, closing deals, enjoying parties and social life and more. But how do we balance our physical, mental and spiritual wellbeing, as well as our social, family and work needs? This is certainly a big challenge. Too many people think this is impossible, so they give up on their existing relationships, hoping to start all over again with a new partner. Unfortunately, this approach brings a lot of sadness and frustration to any relationship. It leads people into the trap of justifying their unhappiness and/or blaming their partner for their own miscommunication. Either way, as the saying goes, it takes two to Tango. This means that relationships can only be “fixed” by aligning the people involved in them.

Happy old couple

Ultimately the bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or in friendship, is conversation
Oscar Wilde

Look at any biography of a successful leader in society or in business and you’ll see the power of knowing how to handle people. Think of the “nice” people around you and you’ll recognise how much easier their life is because of other people like them. If you’re looking for that special person in your life, surely you’ll appreciate these people who seem to know how to say “the right thing” or the ones who seem to have “the perfect relationship”.

Life coaching is a profound experience. Being coached with your partner strengthens your relationship, because you learn to accept yourself and your partner at the same time, realising how much you’re the same.

Relationship coaching is a future-focused program – no “he said, she said”. It’s great for couples who are not happy with their communication, emotional state, sex or depth of relationship, yet have a strong desire to make things work.

What I’ve Learned

I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love you.
All you can do is be someone who can be loved.
The rest is up to them.
I’ve learned that there are people who love you dearly,
but just don’t know how to show it.
I’ve learned that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to,
it doesn’t mean they don’t love you all they can.
I’ve learned that we don’t have to change friends
if we understand that friends change.
I’ve learned that two people can look at the exact same thing
and see something totally different.
I’ve learned that just because two people argue,
it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other.
And just because they don’t argue,
it doesn’t mean they do.
Omer Washington

 Here’s what our clients say:

My partner and I  both are aware of how different we are and most of the time are able to appreciate these differences. We discuss things more now then we ever did before life coaching.  I don’t hold back any feelings that I might have but I am more careful of how I tell him about my feelings. I realize that he doesn’t always understand the way I feel and I am comfortable with a that now.

I feel great and It means that I forgot about the past as much as possible and started looking forward to spending my present and future with him.Amanda Toyoura, Lecturer, Yokohama, Japan, 31 years old

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What Is Relationship Coaching?

The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return
from Nature Boy by Nat King Cole

Relationship Coaching is like a professional friendship. Your coach will get to know you both, will listen to what you have to say, will accept you, just the way you are, and will care about your relationship as much as you will. Your coach will help you find where your communication may be stuck, where you may be going in different directions, and show you ways to restore the harmony. Your coach will encourage you and keep in touch with you for as long as you want to be coached.

Cuddling in room

To love someone deeply gives you strength. Being loved by someone deeply gives you courage
Lao Tzu

Your coach will also teach each of you some powerful and time-tested tools to “rearrange” your thoughts and feelings and “make sense” out of them. Your coach will push you to practice these tools and use them in your relationships, outside of sessions, so that you will get results and experience success and happiness.

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Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years
Simone Signoret

The Be Happy in LIFE Relationship Coaching Program: Get an A+ in Happy Relationships

A+ stamped on a notebook

Let’s face it, no couple ever went to a relationship school so when they need to pass the test, in hard times, they fail.

Most people put an enormous effort to change their unhappy relationships with the skills they have, but it leads nowhere because those skills (or lack of them) are what brought them to that point in the first place. The sad part is that constant failure attempts to change, and that brings people to giving up on relationships or their love life. Many people start blaming, compromising and negotiating with circumstances that high jacked their happiness. They just give up and live an unhappy, unfulfilled relationship where all they want is a way out of it. Most of them are missing the right emotional intelligence to recognize, manage and support self or other’s feelings.

According to research, having emotional intelligence means having 4 skills:

Recognising your own feelings

This means correctly answering the question “What am I really feeling now?”

This may not be so simple, because most people react to things that are not present, like making a big deal about something, because your parents always used to make a big deal about it.

In the Be Happy in LIFE Relationship Coaching program, we believe that a good relationships starts with yourself. If you bring two happy people into a relationship, you can guarantee they will have a happy relationship. Our program covers the key areas in emotional focus: beliefs, values and needs.

They say it takes a village to raise a child. That may be the case, but the truth is that it takes a lot of solid, stable marriages to create a village
Diane Sollee

Serious couple

Managing your own feelings

This means changing your emotional state at will.

Many people think this is done automatically. You either can or can’t control your feelings and though some people can do it easily, managing feeling is a learned skill.

At Be Happy in LIFE we are experts in Emotional Intelligence and will teach you the basic skills of emotional control: rules, anchoring and responsibility.

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person
Mignon McLaughlin

Recognising other people’s feelings (empathy)

This means understanding what other people are really feeling and why they say or do what they do.

Empathy was found to be a biological function that was either stimulated or suppressed during childhood and highly connected to communication styles, love languages and feelings of worth or lack of worth.

In the Be Happy in LIFE Relationship Coaching program, with 25 years of experience in communication styles, we help all our clients learn the basics of communication. Our sessions are highly practical and effective and support a positive recognition of feelings in others.

I am convinced that if we as a society work diligently in every other area of life and neglect the family, it would be analogous to straightening deck chairs on the Titanic.
Stephen Covey

Managing other people’s feelings (motivation)

This means inspiring desired emotions/behaviours in others.

Helping and supporting others to manage their own feelings can contribute to a bond in any relationship. If you learn what your partner wants to achieve and feel, and have the tool to motivate him/her to get what he/she wants, this is the best win/win relationship. You are more likely to receive this in return from your partner when you need to pass some hard “tests” in life.

Lean on me

In the Be Happy in LIFE Relationship Coaching program, we teach rapport building, including body language, tone control. We focus on beliefs, needs and acceptance which are essential elements of motivation.

Our Be Happy in LIFE Relationship Coaching program was written by the creator of the Be Happy in LIFE Program, Ronit Baras, who is an expert in emotional intelligence and has 25 years of experience. In this program, clients are introduced to many research based techniques about relationships, the art of motivation, mind power, the science of human behaviour , meditation, psychology and communication. The program uses NLP (Neuro-linguistic Programming) techniques to eliminate undesirable thinking patterns that cause challenges in the relationship. NLP is very successful tool as it helps deal with the subconscious. Your coach will teach you/ both of you to use those techniques on yourself and those around you to make it easy for you to apply them whenever you feel your conscious and subconscious are not in sync.

When taking the Be Happy in LIFE program you learn assessment tools to find where you are in the relationship and where you are heading. You will identify the source of your beliefs, study their impact on your life and relationship, examine their validity and eliminate them if you think they are “unhealthy” or not useful.

Couple kissing seaside restaurant

In their place, you’ll choose new beliefs that promote success, abundance, relationships, support, love and good communication and happiness. You’ll update your “map” and upgrade to fast tracking devices that will get you to your destination faster.

The program will help you find strengths from within and teach you how to stay strong and focused even if life is not happening exactly the way you wanted by using your own wants as a guide. This is especially important in relationship coaching, as following your partners pressure over the years is probably what brought the trouble in your relationship.

In this program you will learn alignment tools; learn the difference between compromising and alignment and why compromising is the beginning of a breakup and alignment is foundation of a good relationship. Relationship is a dance that requires both to be tuned to each other, and we are experts in tuning.

A good marriage is the union of two good forgivers
Ruth Bell Graham

Couple hugging on the beachThe Be Happy in LIFE Relationship Coaching program is a future oriented program. We don’t focus on the past, we do not look for labels, we don’t search for people or circumstances to blame for the unhappiness in our relationship. Instead we assess the situation, find the dream and desires of everyone involved, we plan the journey and start moving forward.

We say that this course is like a driving course. If you drive looking backwards, you will have lots of accidents, if you look forward most of the time and from time to time look at the rear mirror, or look backwards when overtaking, you are more likely to get to your destination safely. Every relationship has experienced pain in the past, but we can still have lots in common and lots to look for. We just need to look forward.

We learn at every session how to handle obstacles and setbacks, how to establish positive thinking and how to accept, communicate better, appreciate, support and motivate ourselves and our partner while enjoying the journey on the way. The past, in this program, has no power to determine our future.

As for his secret to staying married, my wife tells me that if I ever decide to leave, she is coming with me
Jon Bon Jovi

This is the place to say that Life coaching is not for everyone as it is suitable only for couples that want to achieve something and are able look forward. It is not a place for a bitching session. We say that a persons emotional state can be in one of two places. It can be in the Discovery Zone or Recovery zone.

If you are in discovery, you are aware of what happened to you in the past and are willing to clear the space to the new you. If you are in recovery zone, you can’t do that. You are blaming and angry and you need a help from a psychologist.

For a person in recovery, life coaching may seem too demanding as the place they are in is part of their identity and they are not ready to let it go. It is important for each person considering using a life coach to examine their emotional state before taking the program.

The coach’s job is to help the client constantly look and move forward, if someone is not ready to move forward, this will only increase the frustration. If you are looking for a validation for your desire to separate, you will not benefit from using our Be Happy in LIFE Relationship Coaching program. A lawyer may be a better choice.

Happy couple outdoors

In the Be Happy in LIFE Relationship Coaching program, you will be asked to fill in an online assessment that serves three purposes.

  1. Reading your assessment will allow your coach to determine if this program is suitable for you.
  2. It will highlight difference between the couple that your coach will focus on during the session
  3. It will save you paying for a session, that will mostly be an opportunity for your coach to get to know you.

Integration is an essential ingredient for the success in this program. Have you ever been to a seminar, read a book or learned something that was very exciting, but after a week, it faded? We structure our program for full integration of what you learn back into your everyday life, so that it never fades.

How do we do it? During every session, you will apply your new knowledge to yourself and to your partner. You will face the hard questions and answer them. You will document your success in a journal and you will develop a new, empowering routine. Most importantly, you will choose some challenging actions to take in-between sessions, which will take you, step by step, from where you start to who you want to be.

There are two main formats for life coaching, one is a free flow session when you discuss with your coach the topics that needs adjusting. At the end of this session you will be able to come up with a list of action steps that will help you move forward.

The second format is a written program that you can use during the session, after the session and even years after. We have made a decision to go with the second format as we believe that reinforcement and the ability to go back and reflect on what happened in the session and follow up activities are the best way to make sure you are not back into old thoughts and habits. We have clients that finished their programs years ago and we can still forward them to sessions in their “manual” to overcome new challenges.

Happy coupleWe also found out that teaching our clients the coaching techniques contributes to their success because they adopt a life coaching mentality and can become their own life coaches long after they finish coaching with us. One big challenge of many clients is to change without the protest of those around them. We have added into this program activities that encourages our clients to coach the people around them. This approach has been the core of our program; we don’t only teach you how to be happy in your relationship but we show you how you can use those techniques over and over again for years to come. We believe this is one of the reasons why our program is very successful. As a couple, you will want to be able to communicate effectively and “do the right thing” for each other. Once you’ve mastered the above skills, all you need to do is apply them. This is where our program really shines, because the real change in coaching happens in-between sessions. You learn something, you process it verbally and in writing, and then you go back to your life and gradually apply it, until it is part of who you are every day.

Divorce is like an amputation. Sometimes it’s necessary but it should be avoided if at all possible because it brings about a permanent disability
Bill Doherty

In the Be Happy in LIFE Relationship Coaching program, we do not believe that one size fits all. We believe we are all unique and individuals and what suites one couple is not necessary suitable for others. This is why many of our clients who did the individual program have asked their partners to join in as the “formula” is adjusted to every participant.

Happy comforting coupleTo help our clients stay motivated and incorporate their learning into their daily life, we have designed the program to gradually increase the gaps between the sessions.

The gap between sessions 1 to 2 will be 2 weeks.

The gap between session 2 to 3 will be about 3 weeks

The gap between session 3 to 4 will be about 4 weeks

The gap between session 4 to 5 will be about 5 weeks.

If you do the calculation you will find that it will require about 3 months to complete the relationship coaching program. All clients, even those wanting to “speed” the process and meet every week, end up extending the gaps between the sessions. We believe this is a healthy process and a sign of growth, independence and confidence

No, not everyone is the same and not everyone is 100% comfortable with increasing the gaps in between sessions. This is why the coach will be in email or phone contact with the clients to assess if the gap is healthy or too long. If things happen in between and you need to see your coach earlier, you will be able to contact your coach and re-schedule your session to suit your needs. Obviously the sessions will be flexible with the couples time table and sessions can be taken during the day or afternoon. Some weekday evening session are also available.

Our relationship coaching sessions take about 1.5 hours and we ask that you allow 2 hours in case we are in the middle of something important (which happens often). We think that time should never be the reason we stop a good and healthy experience.

Ronit,

I appreciate the time you have dedicated to myself and my lovely wife you have definitely giving us the strength to understand a lot more about ourselves as well as others. It must feel good to have the ability to change peoples mind sets to a state of well being and happiness- I know I would.

I would really like to thank you for reminding us that we will always love each other no matter what obstacles are in our way and that we make a great team.(Thank to my darling wife)

I wish you and your family happy yearAaron White

Happy couple in bedMany coaching practices require the clients’ commitment for the full program. We believe this philosophy is against our values and against what life coaching is all about. It is meant to give you a sense of control over your life. If you keep going to see your life coach because you have paid and you are only using up your money, then you are not in control.

Relationship caching cannot be like a membership to a gym that you pay ahead to force yourself to go. This is why we have a pay as you go philosophy. You have a session, you pay for it at the end of the session and you have the freedom to finish the program whenever you want.

Our goal is to make sure you finish your program as soon as possible. We think that change can happen fast and many people just don’t’ know how to do it on their own. Being in constant therapy only increases the “something is wrong with me” mindset and it only brings sadness, frustration and misery. We encourage our clients to finish their program as soon as possible and celebrate and enjoy their success.

If you wish, your coach will stay in contact with you long after you finish the program. We still have regular contact with clients who used our programs over 25 years ago.

Our relationship coaching program is delivered individually or in a couple and is based on 32 years of close relationship and 25 years of work in the field of emotional intelligence

Happy marriages begin when we marry the ones we love, and they blossom when we love the ones we marry
Tom Mullen

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What You Will Get from the Be Happy in LIFE Relationship Coaching Program

I have no way of knowing whether or not you married the wrong person, but I do know that many people have a lot of wrong ideas about marriage and what it takes to make that marriage happy and successful. I’ll be the first to admit that it’s possible that you did marry the wrong person. However, if you treat the wrong person like the right person, you could well end up having married the right person after all. On the other hand, if you marry the right person, and treat that person wrong, you certainly will have ended up marrying the wrong person. I also know that it is far more important to be the right kind of person than it is to marry the right person. In short, whether you married the right or wrong person is primarily up to you
Zig Ziglar

More self-confidence

Many of our clients are exposed to different ways of doing things. They develop this false understanding that the power to change things is in the hands of professional. WE show them that they are much stronger than they think they are and that they can make it happen. Our program increases their confidence and teaches them to trust themselves.

Better energy management

Happy couple kiss on the cheekWe found out that many of the couples seeking relationship coaching do not know how to manage their energy and feel drained. Drained feeling can be itself an energy consumer and decrease the love and connection a couple have for each other. All our clients learn to be efficient in their We have many clients that feel lack of energy and find it hard to cope with daily routine not to mention pursue their dreams and wants. Many of them report an increase in energy due to better energy management.

Improved positive outlook on life

Sometimes the relationship breakup is a result of too much focus on the half empty glass. All humans have faults. When we are in-love we don’t notice them, when we are out of love they stick out and are very painful. In life, we get what we focus on. Our clients finish our program happier and positive.

A great sense of achievement

All our clients believe they have achieved something during their coaching program. The good thing about this is that the achievement is sustainable. We say that if achievement is like losing weight, they don’t have to lose it over and over again.

 Marriage, like a submarine, is only safe if you get all the way inside
Frank Pittman

Useful ways to understand and manage your emotions

Happy couple grass and flowers

Our Be Happy in LIFE Relationship Coaching program is a course in emotions. One major component of this course is that everyone can learn these techniques. All of them have been thoroughly researched and perfected by the biggest psychology and human behavior professionals and we believe this information needs to be available to all. This is why we provide FREE tips and techniques for being happy (you are welcome to read and subscribe).

Appreciation for the change process, not just the end result

Some of the couples doing our relationship coaching program say ” I will be happy when he/ she will…”. In our program, good relationships and “only when” do not go hand in hand. We believe this is a source of unhappiness. Happiness is easy to reach and All of our clients finish the program with ” I can be happy all the way to my goal”.

A good understanding of communication styles

As part of our course on human behaviour we take all our clients through the communication styles session. Our feedback forms are full of statements of better communication. We pride ourselves for brining 25 years of experience in communication styles into this program and for mending lots of broken hearts and inspiring excellence.

A positive outlook on relationships and on other people

Couple on the road

Relationships are essential for success, health and wealth. All our clients improve their relationships with loved one and develop courage in contacting old friends, family members and colleges to sort out old problems. When this load is off their chest, they are free to move forward faster.

Good stress management skills

Stress is a big killer in our society and contributes to lots of relationship or marriage breakups. Almost all our clients have some stress in their life and in our course we teach easy, research based techniques to identify “stressors” and eliminate them.

A good understanding of love languages

Every client wanting to improve relationships with family member, partners, children, colleagues or employees will learn about the differences between everyone’s love languages and how to use this knowledge to improve communication.

More understanding and acceptance of self and others

An important part of the Be Happy in LIFE Relationship Coaching program, as an emotional intelligence program, is the ability to understand and accept yourself and others. Clients learn to work with the world around them rather than aim to change the world or fight against it. There is much calm and freedom in acceptance and forgiveness and during the process a huge load is lifted and allows them to move forward.

A sense of belonging

I promiseSome people see themselves as different mainly because they are but that does not mean they cannot be in a happy relationship. In this program, as the focus is about keeping the individuality and not compromising on what others want you to be, it is more about alignment rather than giving up who you are. No matter how different you are or were all your life.

Better relationships with family and friends

Having the ability to understand, accept and support each other, together with better communication skills and having a coaching mentality, all our clients improve their relationship with family and friends and not just their partners. We have feedback forms from clients’ family ( that we have never met) for the change we have facilitated in their family.

I know you don’t know me and convinced you have heard much about me as much as I have heard about you. I wanted to thank you for helping Sabrina overcomes her post natal depression and giving me my wife back. I have known her for 10 years and have never seen her happy like this. Bless you!John, 37, Business man, husband of a client, Brisbane, Australia

Increased level of understanding and responsibility

Young coupleMany people, when feeling overwhelmed, unsuccessful, pain and failure, tend to blame others or circumstances for their problems. In every relationship breakup, this is a major reason for the heartache and pain between the couple. This only increases that sense of failure and does not allow them to move forward. When we swap blaming or justifying with taking responsibility there is a huge shift in mindset and has a result on progress and success.

Internal drive (self motivation)

We live in a society that is motivated by money, by social pressure, by fashion, by status and by our endless need to be loved and accepted by our loved ones and those around us. People will do things to achieve this even if it means they hurt themselves. This is what we call external drive and it means we do what those who put more pressure on us want us to do. This mindset is very dangerous and not healthy to people and they will be in constant pressure to stay together and suffer, for example, for the sake of the kids. We believe that successful and happy couples have full control because they are internally driven and it allows them to think clearly and function within their values and needs. The motivation to stay together comes from within and not from the pain of separation.

Feeling empowered to take control over your life

Couple with guitarIt is very natural that when you find things that work, you feel empowered to keep doing it. The great thing about this program is that you can experience success very fast and you’ll know how to make it happen over and over again.

Effective techniques to recognize your partners’ feelings and needs

In many relationship breakups, people don’t know how to “read” each other’s thoughts and feelings. When people argue and fight, they tend to listen to the words rather than recognize that underneath there are feelings that trying to be expressed. After doing our relationship coaching program, they are much more equipped to translate each other’s feelings and be more sensitive to their needs, which of course make their relationship better.

Increase love towards each other

Love is in the heart of every relationship. All couples once loved each other very much. There was a time in their relationship that they loved each other so much that they decided to commit to each other, to live together or marry. The program is about awakening that love

Practical ways to motivate people

Happy CoupleAs soon as you discover a way to motivate yourself, you become an advocate to internal motivation and are more skilled in motivation so you can help others around you to motivate themselves. This is especially important when you need relationship coaching but your partner does not want to come with you for some reason. Motivating yourself, being happy within yourself, making changes in your attitude, thinking and behavior will be easily recognized and your partner will ask you to include him/her as well. It happens to most of our clients and it is very likely to happen to you too.

Life coaching skills and a life coach mentality

In the program we teach our clients life coaching techniques and have incorporated activities to help you develop a life coaching mentality. All our clients are able to coach those around them. Remember – life coaching is the art of facilitating change and not pushing change. All our clients can do that within the level of their training.

Self coaching and mutual coaching skills

Couple hugging on beachBeing able to coach others to change what they want to change is one outcome of this program, but better than that, when you do though this together, you both have the skills of coaching and have the ability to help and support each other ( level 4 of Emotional Intelligence). Many of every couples problems happen when both are very down and instead of helping each other, they take energy from each other and in good times they become “accountants” when they try to even out what they have do for each other. “I did this for you when you were down, now it is your turn to do it for me”. Accounting and relationship can’t go hand in hand and with the life coaching skills, you’ll be able to take turns in coaching each other when things are a bit tough.

Each divorce is the death of a small civilization.
Pat Conroy

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Why Should I Choose Be Happy in LIFE for My Coaching?

To get divorced because love has died, is like selling your car because it’s run out of gas
Diane Sollee

Married coupleThe short answer is “Because we have been doing this successfully for a long time”.

In the Be Happy in LIFE Relationship Coaching program we model good relationships and we go beyond mediation and translating you to each other. We have developed modules that are unique to us and highlight our expertise regarding communication and relationship building tools. Practicality is our pride.

Thousands of people have taken the Be Happy in LIFE programs and among them were other coaches, counselors and even psychologists. It has opened their life to new possibilities and proved to them all that love that once existed between them, can be part of their daily life again. We have a track record of many couples whose marriage and relationship were saved and we pride ourselves for many renewing vows. Going through the Be Happy in LIFE Relationship Coaching program helped couples increase their confidence in themselves and trust in each other.

On your journey with us, you will gradually build the skills to keep your relationship active and happy and it will increase your motivation and enjoyment in your life.

Marriage, ultimately, is the practice of becoming passionate friends
Harville Hendrix

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More of what our clients say:

By implementing what I have learnt, I’ve seen changes within our family that have really contributed to happier and satisfying relationships.

Merrilyn Vlaanderen, Macgregor State High School

I am doing well since I had a session with you. My relationship with my wife has improved and we are working through things more positively.

I am nearly finished my counselling studies and am working 2 days a week volunteering for Mission Australia. Great experience as I am working with Men and running groups for life skills, etc.

Mark, Counsellor Specialising in Men, Brisbane, Australia

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Frequently asked questions about relationship coaching

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Discover the secrets to positive thinking, find out about communication styles and love languages, get rid of limiting beliefs about relationships and create empowering ones instead.

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