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100 LIFE QUOTES

Be Happy in LIFE Inspiration - April 2011

Quotes are signs we put on our map to navigate through the journey called "life"
- Ronit Baras

One may go a long way after one is tired - French ProverbQuotes are signs we put on our map to navigate through the journey called "life". We need the signs to find our way through the happiness and sadness, joy and heartaches, challenges and success. They are the guidelines for how we choose to live our life.

My first quotes were sentences from songs I loved. When listening to songs, some people hear the melody. I always pay attention to the lyrics. Whenever I chose to carve them on my life map, I copied them into my diary and read them from time to time.

One song that was most meaningful for me as a teenager was John Lennon's "Imagine". It is not a coincidence that today, many years later, I am the state coordinator of Together for Humanity, a foundation advocating living in peace and harmony.

Because making lists is a form of theraphy and is considered a wonderful personal development strategy, I would like to recommend that you find 100 quotes to live by. If you're asking yourself why 100, see here.

Finding and listing 100 quotes that you consider good guidelines for living is a good way to discover who you are, what you want for yourself in life and what your need to overcome. Through the quotes, you can find out what your thoughts, values, needs and beliefs are and direct yourself towards a good life.

You can tell lots about people's personality through their quotes. A person who puts "Never, Never, Never give up!" (Churchill) on their top 100 list appreciates persistence. They may not be 100% persistent, but they will definitely aim for it and appreciate it in others.

If a person puts "Have faith in God. God has faith in you" (Edwin Louise Cole) on their top 100 list of quotes, you can tell that this person is religious.

Problems are not stop signs, the are guidelines - Robert SchullerI am a quote lover. I have them everywhere around the house. On the door of our home office, I posted many quotes. When the door was full, I started putting them on the toilet door too. I am sure that even in the piles of books everyone reads, they also get a chance to read some quotes.

In my parenting courses, I tell parents that if they want their kids to think something, all they need to do is repeat a quote over and over again. Things you repeatedly say slowly filter into your kids' mindset and attitude towards life. One day, they will say, "My mom always said..." even if Mom just quoted someone else.

They only thing to watch out for is funny quotes, because more often than not, they are sarcastic and sarcasm is a form of emotional violence that no one wants to live by or pass on to their kids.

When you complete your list, write your quotes on a piece of paper, print them nicely and put it in a place where you can read them from time to time. I like them on display around the house, in my coaching sheets, in my diary, in my PowerPoint presentations. Luckily, we can find a wealth of quotes on the Internet and they are all free.

Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you'll land among the stars - Brian LittrellHere is a list of 10 sites you can use to find good quotes and sayings to live by. I hope you make good use of them:

How to get the most of your list of quotes:

Quotes do not need to be written by famous people to be good. Something your grandpa used to say can be a great quote to live by too.

Sometimes, the real hard thing is to find   only   100 quotes, so look at various aspects of life, like love, friendship, wealth, courage, wisdom, motivation, faith, success, anger, happiness, parenting and health and choose the 2-3 quotes that means the most to you.

If you find that you like several quotes by the same author, you probably share something with this author. Check out other quotes by this person. Can you tell I like Buddha's quotes?

If we are facing in the right direction, all we have to do is keep on walking - BuddhaSongs are great sources of quotes. If you love the lyrics of a song, quote them. I love Jewel's "Hands", in which she sings, "If I could tell the world just one thing, it would be that we're all OK" and "Only kindness matters".

The library is full of books with quotes. If you prefer to hold a book and find quotes in it, go to the library.

Collecting quotes to live by is a life journey. If you cannot do it at once, you are still OK. Just add them as you hear or read them.

Ask others to help you build your list and share their favorite quotes with you.

As we change so our quotes change and that is perfectly fine. A young person adds quotes about fun and adventures, but as they grow, they add quotes about family and stability. Change is only a sign of evolution and maturity. There is no right or wrong, only what is suitable for you   now .

Stay away from depressing quotes that bring doubt and anger and from quotes that trigger fear.

Stay away from sarcastic quotes. As I said before, their undertone is not funny at all.

Stay away from stereotypical quotes about gender, race, nationality, sexual preferences, etc. They may be funny, but your smile may disappear when you end up believing in them.

I am adding some of the quotes I used for a leadership program I run. For the topic " Creative and courageous leaders ", I picked the quotes below. I hope you find them useful. Of course, you may copy and print them if you like.

When one door closes, another door opens, but we so often look so long and so refretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the ones which opened for us - Alexander Graham Bell

If you have made mistakes, there is always another chance for you. You may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing we call failure is not the falling down but the staying down - Mary Pickford

Success doesn't come to you. You got to it - Marva Collins

Little by little one goes far - Peruvian Proverb

Thigs turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out - Art Linklette

Champions are willing to do the things they dislike to create something they do like. Don't let the things that matter most be at the mercy of the things that matter least - Dexter Yager

When the world says 'Give up', hoe whispers 'Try it one more time' - Unknown

Don't be afraid to give your best to what seemingly are small jobs. Every time you conquer one it makes you that much stronger. If you do the little jobs well, the big ones will tend to take care of themselves - Dale Carnegie

Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow - Mary Anne Radmacher

On the other side of every difficulty lies a new beginning of a better life. You just need to cross over - Ronit Baras

The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing - Albert Einstein

Life is not aboue what happened to us but what we do about it - Ronit Baras

I may not be there yet, but I'm closer than I was yesterday - Unknown

Believe you can and you're half way there - Theodore Roosevelt

Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do - Benjamin Spock

Really great people make you feel that you, too, can be come great - Mark Twain

I't kind of fun to do the impossible - Walt Disney

He is able who thinks he is able - Buddha

Success is not final, failure is not total. It is the courage to continue that counts - Winston Churchill

Only as high as I reach can I grow, only as far as I seek can I go, only as deep as I look can I see, only as much as I dream can I be - Karen Ravn

When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don't adjust the goal, adjust the action - Confucious

Quotes have always been life guidelines for me. Since the age of 16, when I changed my life, I have collected quotes and lived by them. I hope yours will help guide you towards happy, successful, healthy, wealthy and loving life.

May the force be with you,
Ronit Baras
 

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